In his biweekly column, Langley Shazor speaks to issues important to men within the territory.

You can lead well. You can love well. You can serve well. But if you do not learn how to manage yourself well, it will all eventually catch up with you. That is the truth about growth—it is not about what you do in public, it is about how honest and accountable you are in private. The real work begins and ends with you.

It is easy to focus on who needs you, what you are building, or how you show up for everyone else. But emotional intelligence always turns the question inward first. How do you speak to yourself? How do you handle your own triggers when nobody else is around? Are you self-aware or just self-critical? Do you manage your emotions, or do you just explain them away? This is not surface-level talk. This is the kind of internal examination that reveals whether your growth is sustainable or just performative.

I have learned that accountability with yourself is the hardest kind to maintain. Because there are no cheers. No recognition. No applause. Just you and the choice to do what is right when doing what is comfortable would be easier. That choice shows up in your habits, your self-talk, your morning routine, your moments of quiet. It shows up when nobody is watching and when nobody will know if you slip. But you know. And that is what separates people who grow from people who pretend.

You can fake a lot of things, but you cannot fake emotional discipline with yourself. You either have it or you are working on it. And if you are not working on it, you are probably bleeding on people who have nothing to do with your wounds. That is what happens when we avoid the mirror. We project. We perform. We push forward while falling apart. But at some point, your lack of self-accountability will leak—and it will leak into your decisions, your relationships, your leadership, your faith, your health.

Emotional Intelligence 2.0 reminded me that growth is not automatic. Just because time passes does not mean maturity happens. You can be older and still emotionally immature. You can be successful and still self-sabotaging. You can be spiritual and still emotionally unavailable. That is why self-awareness and self-management matter. They give you the tools to actually grow—not just in your performance, but in your peace.

So what does accountability with yourself look like? It looks like honesty about your patterns. It looks like owning when you procrastinate, deflect, or overextend. It looks like making time for rest and not waiting for burnout to force your hand. It looks like going to therapy, setting boundaries, praying without pretending, and building structure around the areas where you tend to fall short. It is not glamorous. But it is the real work.

It also looks like holding space for your humanity. Accountability is not about beating yourself up. It is about telling yourself the truth and then walking in that truth with grace. You do not grow by shaming yourself into change. You grow by being honest about what needs to change and then taking daily steps to do something about it. That kind of honesty requires courage. Because it means admitting that the version of you that got you this far is not the same version that will take you to the next level. It means letting go of your excuses. It means forgiving yourself. And it means rebuilding with better tools.

You do not owe anyone perfection. But you owe yourself progress. You owe yourself peace. You owe yourself emotional freedom. And that begins with a decision to stop waiting on external motivation and start holding yourself accountable internally. Every day is a chance to do the work. To check your attitude. To shift your mindset. To catch your tone. To speak kindly to yourself. To get up when you fall. To pause before you react. To rest without guilt. That is the real work.

So here is the question: Can you trust yourself to grow? Can you trust yourself to show up? Can you trust yourself to be honest about where you are and brave enough to go where you need to be? Because when you become someone you can trust, everything else starts to change. Your leadership gets stronger. Your relationships get healthier. Your faith gets deeper. Your decisions get clearer. Why? Because you are no longer fighting against yourself in secret.

You will never outgrow the need to manage you. And you will never regret becoming someone who does that work with consistency. You are your own first project. And if you do the work, you will not just get results—you will get peace.

So let’s stop performing. Let’s stop waiting for a wake-up call. Let’s start the real work. The mirror is already here.

Editor’s Note: Opinion articles do not represent the views of the Virgin Islands Source newsroom and are the sole expressed opinion of the writer. Submissions can be made to visource@gmail.com. 

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In her biweekly column, “State of the Territory,” former Sen. Janelle K. Sarauw delves deeper into issues of concern for V.I. residents.

If the Legislature is the people’s house and the Executive the hands and feet of government, then the Judiciary is its conscience. It is the branch that interprets the law, protects individual rights, and ensures that both citizens and government remain bound by the rule of law.

The authority of the Judiciary in the Virgin Islands is rooted in Section 21 of the Revised Organic Act of 1954 and in Title 4 of the Virgin Islands Code, which lays out the structure and duties of the courts. For decades after transfer from Denmark, the Virgin Islands had no independent judicial branch. Federal judges appointed by the President of the United States presided over the courts of the territory, often from afar, and local matters were funneled through federal authority.

Over time, the system slowly evolved. For much of the twentieth century, justice was handled by the Municipal Courts of St. Thomas and St. John and of St. Croix. In 1976, these courts were consolidated into the Territorial Court of the Virgin Islands, which for the first time gave the islands a unified local judiciary. In 2004, the Territorial Court was renamed the Superior Court of the Virgin Islands to reflect its expanded authority over civil, criminal, family, and probate matters.

For years, however, the absence of a local supreme court meant that appeals from the Superior Court had to be taken to the U.S. District Court of the Virgin Islands. This made our system unlike any state, since federal judges were effectively serving as appellate judges in local matters. The creation of the Supreme Court of the Virgin Islands in 2004 finally completed the judicial branch and gave Virgin Islanders a court of last resort of their own. This was more than a legal reform. It was an act of self-determination, securing the ability to interpret local law in local courts without first seeking review by federal judges.

The Virgin Islands Supreme Court is also unique in the broader American system. It was the last Supreme Court in the United States to be created, established in 2004, and it is directly subject to review by the U.S. Supreme Court under 48 U.S.C. § 1613. While state supreme courts have the final say on matters of state law, with U.S. Supreme Court review limited only to federal questions, decisions of the Virgin Islands Supreme Court may be appealed directly to the nation’s highest court, even on questions of territorial law. This appellate pathway ties our highest local court directly to the U.S. Supreme Court, creating a judicial structure unlike that of any state and underscoring both our autonomy and our territorial status.

Today, the Judiciary is composed of the Supreme Court of the Virgin Islands, the Superior Court, and specialized divisions that handle probate, family, civil, and criminal cases. Together they form a coequal branch of government, insulated from political pressure and dedicated to upholding justice. Unlike senators or governors, judges are not tasked with pleasing the public or balancing budgets. Their charge is to apply the law as written, protect constitutional rights, and serve as the ultimate check when either the Legislature or the Executive exceeds its authority.

This independence is vital in a small community. In the Virgin Islands, everyone knows everyone, and pressures to bend rules or favor friends can be immense. The Judiciary stands as the safeguard that personal relationships, political influence, or economic power cannot outweigh the law. The bench is designed to be impartial, ensuring that justice is blind, even when the parties involved are well-known or politically powerful.

The Judiciary also carries an educational role that is often overlooked. Through its decisions, the courts clarify what laws mean and how they should be applied. For example, when a statute passed by the Legislature is challenged, it is the courts that determine its constitutionality and give it life through interpretation. In this way, judges do not make law, but their rulings shape how the law is lived.

Yet the role of the Judiciary is often misunderstood. Many residents expect judges to solve community problems in ways that are beyond the court’s authority. Judges cannot pass budgets, hire teachers, or pave roads. What they can do is ensure that contracts are honored, that property rights are respected, that criminal defendants receive fair trials, and that the rights of every Virgin Islander are protected against abuse. Expecting judges to fix political or administrative failures is like blaming a referee for the poor performance of a team. The referee cannot score the points, but he ensures the game is fair.

The Judiciary’s importance is magnified by history. In colonized societies, courts were often instruments of empire, used to enforce foreign rule and suppress local voices. The Virgin Islands was no exception. The creation of the Supreme Court was therefore a remarkable milestone, giving Virgin Islanders not only the power to interpret their own laws but also a symbol of judicial maturity and autonomy within the American system.

In a system of checks and balances, each branch has its lane. The Legislature makes the laws and appropriates funds. The Executive enforces and administers those laws. The Judiciary, under Section 21 of the Revised Organic Act and Title 4 of the Virgin Islands Code, interprets the laws and ensures that justice prevails. Only when all three branches respect one another’s role does democracy function at its best.

The Judiciary is not perfect, no branch is, but it remains the guardian of fairness and the shield of rights in the Virgin Islands. It may not fill potholes or pass budgets, but it ensures that every citizen, regardless of status, stands equal before the law. To weaken the Judiciary is to weaken the very foundation of justice itself.

Editor’s Note: Opinion articles do not represent the views of the Virgin Islands Source newsroom and are the sole expressed opinion of the writer. Submissions can be made to visource@gmail.com. 

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